As a youngster I never saw poker as something girls participated in regularly.

My father and brothers played often enough that the clatter of chips and cards formed a constant backdrop at home yet I remained on the sidelines.

Once they allowed me into a Texas Hold Em round without teaching the full strategy then quickly raised stakes to force me out early.

That experience left me annoyed and resolved to avoid unfriendly games in the future.

Years afterward I discovered my advertising role included access to a professional network hosting a women only poker evening with restricted spots so I registered promptly despite knowing only basic rules.

The gathering represented the kind of circle I had longed for since childhood and I wondered if the activity might strengthen my ability to connect with others.

I sought fresh ways to gain an advantage professionally

At the time of that first session I stood midway through my advertising career path.

I had already appeared on several panels and met regularly with a coach to refine executive abilities yet I sensed a need for additional personal growth that would translate to stronger office performance.

Together we explored creative approaches to stay competitive but a card game never entered those discussions as a skill builder.

Although naturally outgoing I viewed the evening as an opportunity to widen my circle of contacts.

My knowledge came mostly from glancing at clips while my partner played yet the male dominated nature of the game motivated me to practice more and consider any transferable lessons for corporate settings.

Arriving at the venue I found an energetic atmosphere filled with welcoming expressions and frequent bursts of celebration from various tables.

Guides provided clear advice on probability and timing bets which helped me secure several wins amid conversations with the eight other women present.

When the session ended nobody seemed ready to depart and one participant called out about learning to wager on herself.

The activity creates an empowering space for shared growth

Following the debut event several participants formed a monthly gathering that has continued for more than two years.

Consistent involvement has refined my play while fostering enduring friendships through extended discussions at the table.

Recently I welcomed twenty three members to my workplace where the setup featured circular arrangements instead of the usual formal layout.

The space carried pleasant scents and featured upbeat music as chips clicked rhythmically during shuffles and refills.

Working late felt enjoyable as conversations flowed naturally around career moves and achievements alongside the ongoing game.

Poker abilities mirror essential workplace competencies

Extensive play has shown me clear parallels between Texas Hold Em and daily advertising leadership.

Executives often guide teams and decide quickly with limited details much like evaluating opponents cards without full knowledge yet still choosing to check bet raise or fold.

The practice improves reading subtle cues whether at the table or during meetings.

Overall the hobby boosts my assurance when making tough calls that may not succeed immediately.

Just as a lost hand does not deter future bets each workday offers renewed chances.

Beyond personal gains the group has facilitated valuable introductions such as linking a newcomer seeking contracts with appropriate contacts.

We call ourselves She Runs The Table to counter limiting messages and encourage bold participation where everyone raises the stakes together.